Panic in a break up situation will get you nowhere

You came home one night just to find your ex boyfriend at your door saying “We need to talk.” You just found out that he’s breaking up with you – and he’s serious. So, what should you do? Should you call him just like everyone else and try to get him back by begging him to come back? How about you text him a thousand times to show him how miserable your life is without him.

This is completely normal when you are just breaking off in your relationship. But let me tell you this – panic is your number one enemy. Panic will lead to misery and desperation and I believe at this point you realize that approach is not working right?

So, let’s look deeply into this – where does the panic come from? You think you may be a rational woman but when it comes to your relationship ending – your rational mind turned off and your emotion do all the talking. That’s the reason why so many people fall in the victim of what I call drunken dialing. You may have done it – it’s where you drink to your heart’s content trying to forget him… then all of a sudden find yourself calling him in the phone and making a fool out of yourself.

In order to calm yourself down – don’t stress things out and just take a break. You need to stop calling him, texting him, or showing up at his door. If you really want to learn how to get him back, know that you won’t be able to make a wise move if you are being emotional. You will just find yourself caught up with an argument with him and find yourself saying things that you really don’t mean. So, before you plan on strategies to get him back… take a break for a few weeks so you could calm down and think more rationally.